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Tom White's avatar

"[I]t’s yet another unforeseen effect of putting a cool innovation in the hands of idiots."

Watching the parallel rise of AI capabilities and human depravity, I’m starting to wonder if 'artificial intelligence' refers to the code or to us.

Alberto Romero's avatar

We are too hard on AI, given how soft we are on ourselves...

Tom White's avatar

"Friction for thee, not for me."

Arne Van Renterghem's avatar

Very interesting POV!

Geoff Gallinger's avatar

Excellent landing at the end. You really stuck it.

Good quotes throughout, and good wrinkles on them.

Some more that might have fit are “We are as gods, we might as well become good at it.” (I forget who.)

And paraphrased from Douglas Rushkoff: yes a tool is only as good or evil as its user, but even though a pillow and a gun can both be used to kill someone, only the gun pulls you in that direction. It has a bias.

And from Naomi Klein: we’re not really in a friction free world, we’ve just externalized all our friction. Ordering Amazon is easy, but the warehouse workers and immigrant delivery drivers can’t even unionize. Having a phone makes life simple, but all the friction ends up on the lives of slave children mining lithium. We may have reduced our own experience of friction, but only by making others’ lives PURE friction.

That is, it’s frictionless to put a Twitter user in a bikini with grok, but only for the person doing the prompting. The misery of difficulty exists, amplified, in the victim’s experience.

James Maconochie's avatar

Now you are speaking my native language - oh, that I was super proud .....

In all seriousness, though - Alberto, this is one of your most important pieces. The line "capability without friction is capability without thought, is capability without conscience" deserves to be carved somewhere permanent.

What strikes me is that you've identified something deeper than a Grok problem or even an AI problem. You're describing a structural pattern: every time we remove a constraint, on communication, on creation, on action, we assume the freed capability will be governed by the same judgment that existed when the constraint was in place. It never is, because the constraint was doing some of the governing.

Your history of nudity's trajectory: sacred, then corporatized, then paywalled, then freely generated in a text field, is a perfect compression of this. Each step removed friction, and each removal didn't just make the action easier; it changed the actor's relationship to the action. When effort disappears, so does the moral weight that effort carried.

This is why "friction-free" isn't just a design philosophy, it's a civilizational bet. And I think the bet is losing. The pattern you trace through Grok applies equally to information, to discourse, to attention itself. We've optimized away the space between impulse and action across every domain, not just the depraved ones. The crisis isn't that bad; people do bad things more easily. It's that the architecture of constraint-removal reshapes everyone's relationship to judgment, consideration, and meaning.

Your closing line is devastating. But I'd push back gently on one thing: the poem doesn't have to end. What's missing isn't the will to care; it's the design vocabulary for reintroducing friction that doesn't feel like regression. That's the hard problem worth working on.